Fear of driving on highways

Fear of driving on highways is a common problem and one that you can overcome.

My name’s Paul and I’m both a professional driving instructor and professional therapist. I’ve helped hundreds of drivers overcome their fear of driving in the last 20 years.

Here’s why you have a fear of driving on highways, what you can do about it and how to fix it. You may also want to see my page on the fear of driving on motorways. Highways and motorways are the same things really but I work with people around the world where they have different names.

Book your free online consultation with me now to overcome your fear.

Why you have a fear of driving on highways

Your fear of driving on highways, freeways or motorways comes from your mind stopping you from driving because it thinks that is best for you.

Your mind thinks this because an event happened in your life that gave your mind reason to think that driving on highways is bad or dangerous.

This event that caused your mind to think this way has nothing to do with driving. That’s why this problem can seem impossible to fix; you just can’t think what’s causing it!

There are actually two events that will be causing your highway anxiety. The first event gave you the feeling you experience now when you drive on highways and another event activated that feeling.

Think of it like having apps on your phone. Have you ever been browsing on your phone one day and found an app that you never knew was there? It’s been there for months, maybe years, but you never noticed it before.

Phobias and fears are just like phone apps: they sit there for years not doing anything just waiting to be loaded!

How to overcome fear of driving on highways

The best way to overcome a fear of driving on highways is to remove the cause of the fear.

This involves finding the event that we mentioned earlier and changing the way you think about it. We don’t get rid of it or remove it, we just change your perception of it.

Imagine that you are walking down a street one night when a man starts running towards you, shouting for you to stop. You start to panic, sweat and you anticipate being attacked. He then explains that you dropped your phone and he gives it back to you.

What happens to your fear when you realise he wasn’t attacking you but giving you back your phone? It goes.

It’s just the same with your driving anxiety. Your mind has simply got something wrong and once you find out what that is and fix it, the problem will go. Yes, just like that!

What if I can’t find the cause of my fear?

You don’t need to find the cause, that’s just one way of doing it.

Sometimes the problem can be lost in your mind or it just doesn’t want to show itself. No problem, we can can at it from other angles and fix things in other ways.

We can look forward instead of back and concentrate on how you want to feel now rather than digging up the past.

Generally you get a better result by digging out the root cause but it’s not essential. Everyone’s mind works in a different way. How boring would it be if we were all the same?

Can I do this with YouTube videos?

Many people make the mistake of thinking that anything can be fixed by looking on Google or YouTube.

YouTube videos telling you to be calm and relax do not work. They are not getting to the root cause of the problem as we would by finding the event as described above.

The best you can hope for from MP3 tracks is temporary relief but the problem will soon pop it’s head back up. It’s like how you need to pull up a weed from it’s root to get rid of it. It’s no good just pulling part of it up or covering it up with a plant pot because the weed will still be there!

I have written a whole page titled Do YouTube hypnosis videos work? where you can learn more about why they don’t.

If you want a problem fixed properly then you need professional help.

How do we fix it and how long will it take?

You can fix a fear of driving on highways online using Zoom. How long it takes is different for everyone but it’s usually 2 to 6 hours.

On the first session, we find all the pieces of the puzzle to see why you have driving anxiety.

On the second session, we put those pieces together and that’s usually the problem gone. If you need more help then we tie up any loose ends and strengthen your confidence.

The great thing about working online is that we can work together wherever you are in the world.

What result will I get?

In most cases your fear of driving will go and you can drive just like you used to.

Some people report feeling much better but with a slight niggle remaining. Others say they feel worse at first and then the problem goes a few days later. Some people think nothing has happened and then 9 months later they suddenly feel it work!

There is no fixed solution or way of solving this. That’s why it’s essential you work with an experienced expert such as myself. Don’t rely on well-meaning amateurs and self-proclaimed “experts” in online help groups and on YouTube.

I cannot guarantee a result for everyone but it works around 90% of the time.

Contact me to fix your fear of driving

Book your free consultation with me now to overcome your fear.

You can learn more about driving anxiety or see my pages about specific problems such as fear of driving over bridges or fear of driving downhill.